About

welcome to a toast!

Who we are

Welcome to A Toast!

I am Mary, your biggest cheerleader in every phase of life, and owner/head event planner of A Toast Custom Events in Dallas/Ft. Worth, Texas! I love all things event planning and enjoy seeing the joy that comes from creating memorable experiences for my clients. A Toast Custom Event Planning was started in 2021. During our first year of business, we planned and coordinated 42 weddings! It was an absolute whirlwind and the best decision I had ever made. When it comes to your big day, I strive to bring unique and personalized touches to every event I plan. Whether it's a wedding, birthday party, or social celebration, my goal is to exceed expectations and make each event unforgettable. From selecting the perfect venue to coordinating all the intricate details, I am dedicated to creating a seamless and stress-free planning process for my clients.


At A Toast, we learn our clients’ dreams and desires with intentionality. This is not “just another day at work” for us - this is YOUR one and only wedding day and we treat it with the care and effort it deserves. With the help of tools like the Enneagram and The 5 Love Languages, we study and implement the best ways to communicate with and encourage you and your fiancé every step of the way. You will not find any other wedding planning service like this - we checked!


our story

A Toast Custom Event Planning was founded by Mary & Angela in 2021. Mary was Angela's big sister in their sorority, Sigma Alpha, and the two became like sisters! Prior to starting A Toast, for years they helped their family members and friends plan weddings and get married. They loved it! But they had their corporate jobs to attend to, so they never made it a full-time thing.


Through those years, they noticed the importance of investing in a marriage even more than investing in a wedding and the positive changes that come from self-awareness and emotional intelligence - especially during the wedding planning process. They had creative musings about "wedding planning tailored to your personality type." All a whimsical pipe dream - or so they thought...


In 2020, everything changed. Mary & Angela lost their jobs in one way or another and applied for every other job under the sun with no luck! Then, they looked at each other and said, "Should we just do this thing?"


Fast forward to 2021, A Toast's first year of business, where they planned and coordinated 42 weddings! It was an absolute whirlwind and the best decision they had ever made. For 3 years, Mary & Angela worked side-by-side planning and coordinating the most amazing weddings together. In 2023, Angela decided to start her own family and stepped back from being co-owner of A Toast. Mary has since continued the dream behind A Toast Custom Event Planning and loves every aspect of planning and coordinating weddings. She finds joy in bringing couples' visions to life and creating unforgettable moments for them and their loved ones. With years of experience and a keen attention to detail, Mary ensures that every wedding she plans is a reflection of the couple's unique love story. From selecting the perfect venue to curating the menu and coordinating with vendors, Mary handles every aspect of the planning process with professionalism and care.


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hello, i'm mary!


Mary grew up in a small agricultural town in California, where her family has farmed in the San Joaquin Valley since 1912. Growing up in agriculture, Mary knew she wanted to be in a career that involved food in some way. Mary graduated from CSU Chico with a degree in Nutrition and Food Science and moved to Texas to work in a food manufacturing career that did not feed her soul. 


About a month after living in Texas, Mary met her husband, Lyle, on Tinder. It just had to be fate. They have two senior dogs named Jane & Brawley. Her favorite meal is brunch and that is the meal they shared at their wedding after sunrise first look photos, and the most unique aspect of her wedding, a pool party. It was a perfect day! On any beautiful, sunny day you might find her on a patio enjoying a spicy margarita or if it’s stormy outside, she’ll definitely be snuggled on the couch watching Harry Potter with a bowl of popcorn. 


Mary has worked in the hospitality industry for over 10 years which has led her to a dream job of wedding planning. On wedding day, you can find Mary checking to make sure every detail is in place, directing the many moving pieces, and ensuring you are having the best day ever. Once the party starts on the dance floor, you’ll find Mary enjoying the music and a Dr. Pepper. Favorite send off medium: bubbles!


Enneagram 5

Love Language: Quality Time


my wedding

I am a fire wife!

Brunch is my favorite meal!

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I’d prefer to stay at home with my dogs than stay out late.

I am a fire wife!

Brunch is my favorite meal!

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I’d prefer to stay at home with my dogs than stay out late.

our core values

Integrity

Honesty and diligence in our services, conversations, business dealings, and everything we put our hands to.

Intentionality

We believe everything we do reflects on our reputation and character and do not take that lightly.

Connection

This is not just a job but a crucial part of life as marriage; we believe marriage is one of life's greatest blessings; our couple is our priority. 

Client Delight

Our goal is beyond satisfaction, and it is that the customer is delighted and has beautiful memories of their wedding from start to finish.

Integrity

Honesty and diligence in our services, conversations, business dealings, and everything we put our hands to.

Intentionality

We believe everything we do reflects on our reputation and character and do not take that lightly.

Connection

This is not just a job but a crucial part of life as marriage; we believe marriage is one of life's greatest blessings; our couple is our priority. 

Client Delight

Our goal is beyond satisfaction, and it is that the customer is delighted and has beautiful memories of their wedding from start to finish.

Difference

We don't want to be like any other wedding planner; we were made to be different, exceptional, and outstanding. It's who we are.

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